<1>Control over self & <2>The freedom to choose...an option...
Everyday battles/wars wage on...they come with either
A. an "optional" tag,
B. "expiry" tag,
C. "no-retreat" tag.
- B4 u start the battle, ensure that u know the outcome (without the end in sight, it wud be better 2 be self-defensive...dont kill the 'enemy' yet...u cud be making a regretful mistake). ...
- Once u r sure of the outcome, Then do an internal chk whether u really want the end-result to happen.
- If it's a big "YES"(refer to case C above), gather all ur resources, strategise and b4 drawing the sword, offer "Truce"...if it is not accepted, go all out for the kill...the next blow cud end the battle!
- If it is a sure 'NO' (refer to case A above), just walk away from battle...it aint worth fighting...this might involve a self-sacrifice...but it's worth it...after all, losing an unwanted battle doesn't make u weaker or a coward...in fact, u wil emerge stronger & wiser! All this as long as u believe in that "NO"...
- If it is a 'MAYBE' (refer to case B above), hang on there...give a blow, take a blow...weather it out...know that it's got an expiry date! (If it doesn't end, then case C is applicable...u knw wat to do ...Wake Up!!!)
A battle is not fought for 2 reasons-
1. Peace &
2. Fear of defeat.
- If it is '1', it is a worthy virtue to pursue.
- If it is '2', it is not the defeat that you shud b worried about; it is the'fear' that u shud be scared about, bcos... it will kill u anyways!At the beginning of a battle, there are 2 rivals - 'Right' & 'Wrong'! At the end of the battle, there is only 1 entity left - the "Right" or the "Wrong"...whoever survives is ultimately right! The point is that u hav 2 fight the battle bcos u think u r right...if u think u r not, then it is better to align with the rival. [There is no intermediate stage. If u think, there is,then it is all excess baggage and u need to shed it...else u will be defeated by ur own 'illusions'...]
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